http://www.teenhutmagazine.com Teenage Magazine Articles Sun, 05 Feb 2012 06:00:30 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en Learn how to get a girl to ask you out in just a few simple steps. Sometimes a girl can just be as daring as a guy and ask you out, contrary to what most people believe. Most of the guys focus on how to approach a girl or ask them out, but let me tell you, working on how to get a girl to ask you out can be much more powerful.Imagine a situation where in a girl comes to you and asks you out and you have to think whether to accept her proposal or reject her? Isn't it amazing? Read on to learn how to get a girl to ask you out :- Be the center of attraction In order to attract girls towards yourself, you have to be the cool guy of your class or work. By cool, I mean someone who is confident and different. You need to do cool stuff, like develop some exciting energetic hobby or something. This will help a girl get attracted towards you and your interests. Be friendly If you want to get a girl to ask you out, it is very important for you to be friendly towards her. Being friendly will only make things easier for the girl to ask you out. It gives them a sense of comfort and ease to do things she might not have been able to. Avoid being too friendly though, you don't want to give her a feeling that you don't see her that way. Don't chase her The last thing you want to do is to chase the girl you want to ask you out because this would only lift her expectations and then she would be the one who will expect things from you and not vice versa. It should be the girl who should be chasing you and not you. So be friendly, make things easy for the girl and let her do the task for you. Leave hints If you want to get a girl to ask you out, the girl should know that you like her and would love to go out with them. You must leave these hints for the girl to think about you most of the time and realize that you like her and will care for her. If she doesn't know a thing about your interest, how would she gather all the courage to ask you out? The above are a few very simple tips on how to get a girl to ask you out. If you follow these tips carefully, you will soon find yourself in a great position where the choice will be yours, to accept the girl or not. Imagine how powerful can that situation be. http://www.teenhutmagazine.com/how-to-get-a-girl-to-ask-you-out How to control jealousy in a relationship? Well we all know that jealousy is a common problem in most relationships and thus learning how to control jealousy in a relationship is very important. Jealousy has the tendency to bring two partners closer to each other but too much jealousy can also make the two partners part their ways forever. If you let your jealousy go out of control, it will destroy your relationship. It is easy to control jealousy in a relationship if you understand the root cause of your jealousy. Cause of jealousy in a relationship Most of the time the jealousy feeling comes when you see your partner talking to or getting closer to another person of the opposite sex. There may or may not be any fault in your partner or their intentions but the fault is in your fear. Fear is not all bad but if you let your fear start to control your actions, it becomes bad because unintentionally you will start controlling every move of your partner and there it starts to cause problems and slowly the relationship would start deteriorating. How to control jealousy in a relationship Before you begin looking at how to control jealousy in a relationship, you need to accept and acknowledge that you are having the jealousy problem. If you do not have the realization of this problem, you can never over come it. Once you have accepted and realized your problem, you need to try and find out if your fear is real or not. Is there really something going on with your partner which got you this jealousy feeling or is it just in your head. You can find out the truth by actually talking to your partner. Be open to your partner and share your feelings, tell them that you're slightly jealous about what is happening. Be nice and don't be rude when talking to your partner, remember you're sharing your feelings and not demanding something. Being jealous and hiding your feelings will only create problems in your relationship, so it is best to be open about it but nicely. One of the simplest way to control jealousy in a relationship is to ask your partner to do something that will help you calm down your jealousy. If you are jealous about someone they are getting closer with, then ask them to maintain some distance to keep you calm and happy. Your partner loves you and thus should be listening to you rather thinking about the other person. Make sure that you "request" your partner and not "demand" them because if they are good friends with someone, they wouldn't destroy their friendship just like that and then you would just get annoyed that you asked your partner to strictly do something and they didn't. This will cause a lot of trouble in your relationship and will only harm it than help. This should partially solve your jealousy problem, the rest of the work you would have to do it yourself. What else can you do to control jealousy in a relationship Overcome your fears - Have trust in your partner and try to overcome the fear. If you have a great relationship with your partner, then there is no need to fear that someone else would come and take your partner away. Positive interpretation - Interpret the events happening around your partner in a positive way. Is your partner talking or being around someone of the opposite sex? Well think in a positive manner, maybe they both are good friends and nothing else? Why think otherwise and create trouble? Positive thinking - It is very important to have a positive thinking in life. Most of the time people get interpret events negatively because they're too negative and they are always thinking about negative things. If you have a positive attitude to life, you will solve half your issues without any problem. The above were a few simple ways on how to control jealousy in a relationship. If everyone just learnt to keep their jealousy in control, most of the relationships would just never break. http://www.teenhutmagazine.com/how-to-control-jealousy-in-a-relationship I understand that it is a very difficult task to start a conversation with a girl you like but then you really do not have any other option do you? Most guys have the fear of saying something stupid or uninteresting to the girl and getting ignored/rejected. Well if you do not even start a conversation with the girl, you are indirectly anyway rejected. So what is the fear all about? At least you gave it a try and experienced it and probably better it next time. If you follow my guidelines on how to start a conversation with a girl you like, you are surely going to make an impression on that girl. Kick start the conversation The best way to start a conversation with a girl you like is to use the props around you. Is she holding a book? Talk about the book. If she is eating or drinking something, find something to say about that. Talking about something that is easy for the girl to reply about is the best way to do it than to ask a random and irrelevant question which she has to think about or even not be able to answer will only ruin your chances. Keep the conversation flowing naturally Once you have started the conversation with a lot of guts, don't let it die there. You have to focus on keeping the conversation flowing in a natural way. The best way to keep the conversation flowing is to ask open ended questions, you know the questions that require answers in more than a yes or no? There is nothing better conversation killer than asking questions that result in a simple yes or no. The girl does not know you well enough to be talking a lot, so if you ask a silly question, she would actually answer it in just a yes or no. Frame your questions in such a way that she gets to speak much about it, more than a simple yes/no. If you want to talk about a movie, then instead of asking if she likes a certain movie, ask what did she like the most about in that certain movie. This way you keep the conversation flowing naturally. Frame your questions beforehand Always make sure that you have done the proper planning before you start a conversation with the girl you like. Don't just ask a question and wait for her to answer it for you to start thinking on what to say next. Frame some more stuff to talk about before she ends her sentence. The best way to do it is to frame questions out of her own sentences. This shows her that you were listening to her carefully and you cared about what she spoke. Girls like guys who acts as good listeners. If you follow my above guidelines on how to start a conversation with a girl you like, I'm sure you will be able to catch her attention and impress her enough to go on a date with. http://www.teenhutmagazine.com/how-to-start-conversation-with-girl-you-like If sometimes the girls do ask a guy out, they do it in a very different way. Girls look for cute ways to ask a guy out unlike guys who are very straight forward in asking girls out. If you're a girl and looking for cute ways to ask a guy out, then follow some of the following ideas. Lets assume there is a dance in your school and you want to ask a guy out for the dance. How would you do it? There are a couple of cute ways to ask a guy out : - Cute Card Some girls buy a cute card and write in the card in a cute way asking the guy out for the dance and either they post the card or get the card to the guy through her friend. This way it gets simpler for the girls to ask out a guy without having to take all the trouble of going face to face. T-Shirt Idea If you guy is from your school or class, write names of a lot of girls in a T-shirt with washable marker and write your name with a permanent marker. Get a friend to give the T-Shirt to the guy you want to ask out with a note. The note would say, I'm asking you out for the dance program, but the question is "Who Asked You"? To find out, wash the T-shirt with your hand and you will come to know. After washing, only your name is going to be visible sharply and others would fade out. Teddy Bear Voice Recorder Buy a small teddy bear voice recorder and dress it up in a very cute and nice way. Record your sweet voice in it asking the guy out. Next day when you see the guy, run towards him, smile and hand him over the teddy and run away. Piece of Paper Take a piece of paper and write your phone number on it, put all sorts of girly stuff like hugs/kisses/xxx etc that girls often do and wait for the guy to call you. As the guy calls you, ask him out! For me, the T-Shirt idea that a girl used on a guy was the most cute way to ask a guy out. However the other ideas also work pretty much the same. There were some four creative and cute ways to ask a guy out. Which one did you like the most? http://www.teenhutmagazine.com/cute-ways-to-ask-a-guy-out If you want to keep that spark in your relationship, then it is very important that you continue to make your boyfriend feel loved all the time. If any relationship is alive, it is on the fact that the base of it is love. So to keep showering that love on your boyfriend will make things work. No relationship works out well without that love. Here are a couple of tips on how to make your boyfriend feel loved all the time : - Gift Him: Every guy has their own way to show love towards their girl, some regularly give flowers to their girlfriends or some guys gift special things to their girl. If you want to make your boyfriend feel loved, you need to find out what interests him and gift him that on any special occassion, like valentines day or his birthday. These small things make a lot of difference in life as it shows that you care. Show Love: A lot of times girls just keep it in their hearts that they love their boyfriend so much but doesn't show it. Well this is a problem because it is you who know how much you love him, but he needs to see it too. So instead of just thinking about your love, you need to show that love by regularly uttering the words like "I love you" etc. Mix different ways on how you are going to show love towards your boyfriend to make him feel loved. Be Open: Don't hide important things or issues with your boyfriend. The strength of any relationship is Trust and if you start hiding things from your boyfriend for whatever reason, maybe for his own good, it is not warranted. It is because if by chance your boyfriend finds out that you were hiding something from him, he can get sneaky and might feel that you don't trust him anymore. Moreover sharing everything tells the guy that you actually care about him and even trust him a lot and this would make your boyfriend feel loved to the core. Respect Time: One thing guys really appreciate is if the time factor is respected. If you both have plans of going out somewhere, then be on time, be trustful with respect to time. Guys get irritated and annoyed much faster than girls do. So to make your boyfriend to have a good feeling, always respect the time and be anywhere you both have planned to be on time. You will see that such a small thing could bring a big change to your love life. The above were a couple of ways on how to make your boyfriend feel loved but remember one thing, it is good to see your love life doing good, but never do it at the cost of your own happiness. It is pointless if you spend all your time just to make your boyfriend happy while compromising everything on your own life. http://www.teenhutmagazine.com/how-to-make-your-boyfriend-feel-loved It is your first date and I'm sure you want to make it as special as you can. Spice up your evening by asking some exciting and funny first date questions to your date. Here is a complete list of questions you can ask your date : - http://www.teenhutmagazine.com/funny-first-date-questions Teenage girls are often bored and are always looking for new girly things to do. If you're a girl and you're bored and don't know what to do, then I'd suggest you to develop some kind of hobby to pass your time. A lot of girls develop hobbies to pass their time in a fun and entertaining way. You can select any of the following list of hobbies for teenage girls. http://www.teenhutmagazine.com/hobbies-for-teenage-girls Teenage guys have a tendency to get bored and annoyed easily. To overcome their boredom I suggest them to develop some kind of hobby to pass their time. A lot of teenage guys actually do the same and thus I suggest you choose any of the hobbies for teenage guys from the following list. http://www.teenhutmagazine.com/hobbies-for-teenage-guys There could be several reasons as to why you're looking for advice on second date kiss. I'm going to cover a variety of reasons that could have led you to search for help if you should kiss on your second date or not. Lack of courage to kiss on first date? http://www.teenhutmagazine.com/second-date-kiss The third date rule says that the two people dating each other make love on their third date. Now this obviously depends on both the people if they are comfortable enough to take a level higher but in reality, this is not something which is very strictly followed. Let me first tell you that how this third date rule came into existence. http://www.teenhutmagazine.com/third-date-rule