12 Aug
Posted by Teen Magazine as Help & Advice
People usually get into relationships because they love each other but nowadays people have been forming relationships even when they both don’t love each other perfectly. This kind of love is mostly one sided. Why? Teen Magazine would be giving you a few examples as to why people get into relationships even when they are not in love with their partner.
To start with, I have noticed that some people show fake love and hook up with a rich partner just for money. Now I’d like to ask you that is money more important than love? Some of you must have answered with a yes and some of you with a no. I’d tell you that both of you are correct in your own opinions but you would disagree if I ask you -”Is Hooking up with someone with a rich partner for money is right?” Firstly you show fake love then you cheat on your rich partner Is this right?. Several such cases has been observed and trust me, they result in a complete failure, some do succeed in what they want but most fail, you cannot get anything by doing wrong and you’d soon go down! Most of such relationships have been a disaster. If you are in such kind of relationship then confront your partner and break up right now before it is too late.
Then one kind of a relationship which does not involve love is when you do it purposely to make your “ex” jealous. Are you too much obsessed with your ex? Maybe because your ex is going around with someone else or has been trying to do the same with you, that is trying to make you jealous with another partner? Whatever be the reasons, who gives you the right to form a relationship with an honest person who has nothing to do with your past? Using someone for stupid reasons like just to make your ex jealous is complete stupidity and will get you nowhere. By doing such a low deed, you are actually heading for a big problem rather than something great. You will have to face a lot of troubles, depending on situations that may vary. Love is not a thing to play with, if you do, you deserve to be punished. More than 80% of such relationships result in disasters and almost no one has been happy after doing such a thing. End up such a relationships if you are going through one and never go for such stupid ideas. Take it as a warning or ignore it, it depends on you.
Another thing we have seen is when it all goes off for a show off. Are you trying to enter a relationship to show off to your friends that now you are dating someone? Will this give you some kind of craze among others? Is taking such an important decision only for a craze or say popularity? Or are you getting obsessed over the fact that you are single and all your friends are dating someone and so you also want to date? Ever tried to know how happy are your friends who are dating someone or are they also a victim of this kind of relationship? I am sure that there would be at least one of your friend a victim of this kind of relationship. I have got experience and such relationships results in problems and disturbances and nothing else. Mostly this kind of relationships are formed when you are a kid and not fully matured enough to think enough. This is a request that do not form such relationships, a show off relationship will be fun in the start but regretting in the end, many teenagers spoil their lives, start cutting themselves when they regret forming relationships. You will not realize anything now but when you breakup, you might lose all hopes in love.
There are a lot more factors to be shared but I’d limit myself to this much in this post. Teen Magazine suggests you to not enter into relationships for a wrong reasons or for a show off. Relationships are meant to be formed when you are truly in love and not for fun. By doing any of the above stated points, it is you who is going to suffer and not us. Good Luck.
2 Responses
Joseph
August 24th, 2007 at 9:19 am
1Show off for a relationship is a very bad factor and 95% of teens who do it faces problems later. thanks for a great read.
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August 30th, 2007 at 2:11 pm
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