Most teenagers feel that all guys only want those girls who look like models. But this is far from being the truth. When it actually comes to finding true love guys look for a lot more than just great looks and a perfect body. Teens who are presently looking for the answer to ‘what guys find attractive in girls’ should read on to discover the reality.
Teens must certainly be aware of the fact that each and every guy has different likes and dislikes. Therefore, in this article we would cover a broad range of qualities which guys usually look for in girls in order for them to want to have a relationship. The first and foremost stuff which most of the guys find attractive about girls is their self-confidence, self-respect and their self-esteem. According to them a girl who cares about herself would definitely take care of them too.
When a girl is confident about herself it reflects on her mannerisms. A confident girl does things differently, talks to people around her differently, they will tend to take better care of their appearance. When girls send out signals that she really does love herself, it makes way for a guy to indeed fall in love with her.
Independence is another trait which most guys find attractive about girls. Men hate girls who are clingy and are always behind their back. Guys appreciate if the girl has her own group of friends, her own interests and hobbies outside the relationship circle. Such girls become a lot more interesting to be with than those girls who are constantly nagging that the guy is not spending time with her.
Guys like those girls who is a good listener, who would listen to what they have to say, who cares about their feelings, who is always there for them when they need them, basically who they can rely on, a close friend.
Teen Hut Magazine Writer,
Neha
33 Responses
joe
August 2nd, 2009 at 2:40 am
1i happen to be a 15 year old man and in a girl i like them to of course have a perfect ass and giant boobs and the legs that drive you crazyy..but the face is important too..most important actaully so dunt be own on uself if u dun got the bd thte face can make up fo ritt..but i happen to be going out with a girl who isnt the best lookin..shes just got a rockingg set of legs but shes is not the hottest girl..shes just really nice and shesa bit shy..i likea girl like that soo i can feel speacial cuz they act differnt around me fel more comforabel…girl if u lieka guy jus tbe extera comfortabe around them..they can tell and will notice youand likcley fall in love..alsoo bein a baddass girl that isnt scared to say let me suck you dick..im rpetty sure that wd get any guy my age we are all very honey and so if u ever wann ado anything eith them all u gotta do is ask ull nevre get turned down
oh please, joe....
August 8th, 2009 at 6:57 pm
2wow joe…
i happen to be a 15 year old girl who finds your comment quite humorous. and i don’t mean to sound rude…but…i’m not sure if your relationships will last very long if all you’re thinking about is yourself. a relationship with a girl is something between you both, not just her looking ’sexy’ and doing your every little whim to make you feel like a ’special’ boy.
girls want a guy who will return the favor if we look out for him. we’re not all sluts. and we’re not all THAT desperate. so try keeping your immature intentions and hormones under control, please…
laura
November 7th, 2009 at 8:28 am
3im a 15 year old girl and wow ‘joe’ . i think its great that you are going out with ‘not the hottest girl’ and that you feel comfotable around some girls but unfortuantley, you won’t find many girls “bein a baddass girl that isnt scared to say let me suck you dick” . thats pretty odd. girls actually want someone who enjoys spending time with them because they can have real conversations, not just physical stuff.
dating girls
November 22nd, 2009 at 3:40 pm
4Very usefull infomaction. Thank you.
Keep it up
Deborah
December 11th, 2009 at 2:32 am
5I know this is for boys but i have to say when i look at boys what i find attractive is thair hair and thair eyes the guy has to have medium linth hair usaly i like the hair that is in the boys eyes and i love it when the boys flip thair hair when it gets in thair eyes my favorite hair color on guys is brown or black than 2 blonde i love brown eys on guys and blue it just depends on the guy. heres a fact about guys. guys love girls better with dark hair than blonde hair guys get sick of the chicks i mean the chick are evrey where also guys love brown eyes to on a girl.
tori
January 24th, 2010 at 5:47 pm
6im a girl and my guy is smaller then me and he dont care what i look like or my size he loves me for me and thats how a relationship is sappose to be no oh a great set of legs and a sexy ass guys really need to grow up
Racehl
February 1st, 2010 at 7:51 pm
7Mmk, ur a pig, and not every girl has a nice ass and big boobs so be quiet.
K thx.
Rachel
February 10th, 2010 at 8:24 pm
8Dear Joe,
You are a disgusting pig.
Kalli
February 10th, 2010 at 11:59 pm
9Well all i got to say is am a 16 teen(goin 17)year old girl.is that JOE U DIDN’T MAKE NO SENSE AT ALL…..AND WHEN IT’S ALL SAID AND DONE ALL YALL WANT IS SEX!!!!
Kristina Talbot
February 19th, 2010 at 12:27 pm
10wow thats def a guy tlkin lol, but u no wut a guy should look in2 personality and really not care wut they look like!!!!!!!! that p-oed
Jacob
February 28th, 2010 at 10:15 pm
11I’m a 17 year old male lol. I like a girl thats beautiful but she has to have an outgoing personality. I love girls that talk a lot about themself cause it’s always interesting to hear what they have to say and makes it easier on me because i don’t have to talk as much lol. I also like it when they listen to what i have to say. So what i have to say is its not all about beauty but it does play an important part. Guys notice girls by their appearance most the time but personality is what keeps most of us interested :). Sometimes we may know a girl for a while and not notice how pretty she is until we get to know her weird huh?
chloe
March 4th, 2010 at 6:09 am
12god, you can so tell you are only 15.
hopefully you grown up soon.
kelly
March 16th, 2010 at 4:56 pm
13joe, you are a jackass.
taylor
March 21st, 2010 at 2:41 pm
14lmaooooooo okay, first off your not a man**
-second stop trying to talk G,
and third, a badass girl who will say ill suck your dick ? grow-up!:)
anna
April 6th, 2010 at 2:00 pm
15i am a girl and i am hot and have all of those things and i think you r a complete perv and that i would never act that way to a jerk like u bastard
amanda
April 20th, 2010 at 8:50 pm
16joe. you are disgusting and need to lean how to spell.
alex
April 25th, 2010 at 11:05 am
17Ok, I just looked at a few websites which said what girls thought guys find attractive. One recurring attribute was basically being a challenge. They said that playing hard to get was a good thing, and one of them actually said that you should bail on your first date so that you look like a busy woman. Honestly, listen to the perspective of an actual guy. This does not work. It just confuses the shit of out the guy and eventually can make him think you’re just trying to mess with him, which makes him lose interest in you. If you just make it obvious that you’re interested in a guy he will respond directly the way he feels about you. What I mean is, if he is not interested, he will make it obvious, and if he is interested, he will make that obvious. There are no in betweens (unless he’s a complete pansy of course). Even if he is shy, if you have shown through comments and flirting (not by directly stating, I have a crush on you) that you are interested in him, he will probably ask you out. Mentioning things you want to go to will help him to do it even faster, and will mean that you don’t have to open yourself up or seem desperate in any way to do so. So yeah, basically, don’t play hard to get, just be normal. Normal isn’t ‘desperate’ and it doesn’t piss us off either like giving mixed messages does.
kaitlin
April 29th, 2010 at 10:49 pm
18joe I think your stupid.
hailey
May 25th, 2010 at 11:25 pm
19why do guys care soo much!!! im skinnie. i have small boobs. i dont like to be that sexual. like yah ill makeout with someone but i wont suck there cock!!!! thats nasty!!! why cant guys juss chose personality!!!
Isabel
June 15th, 2010 at 12:12 am
20I am a 14 year old girl that is totally hopeless romantic. I happen to be out going, hot, and also a good listener…I am also very sporty, can be a total tomboy but I have to admit I am girly..BUT I don’t get a ll the guys out there. I have to admit I have more guy friends than girls. I kinda feel more loose around guys than girls. But all of my guy friends aren’t totally hung up on me. Even thought I have all of those things your little blog says, I dont get all the hot boys in school. All I’m trying to prove is that all guys are diffrent, and they all find diffrent things attractive. Boobs, butts, or sexy legs…some guys just expect you to be funny, ALWAYS there for them, smart, nice, and/or sporty. And others expect totally the opposite. I’m not trying to prove your article wrong…I am just saying that all guys are WAYYY diffrent.(:
Kylie
June 19th, 2010 at 4:24 pm
21see, i got the butt,the waist,the face,and the personality. im nice and im pretty fun. i dont cuss a lot nless i hurt mysef with the occaisional “shes a bitch” or “GOD DAMNIT I BURNED MY THUMB” but guys dont seem to find me appealing. to me, i think its the social status in schools. im just as damn pretty as te popular girls,and im a model for ‘photography magazine’ and ‘ILP’ and i loovee this guy named nick,hes not even a popular guy,i know evreything about him,hes like a brother to me. but then i told him i liked him and he got all pissy at me! i mean,i dont know why a guy shoulold get pissed off by that.
Dominique
June 23rd, 2010 at 2:38 pm
22My name is Dominique and wat dat joe kid said wow he ken look at me cuz i ken do dat hem! Im so opened dat da tings i say r sooooooo fuckin funny so here u r im ur gurl! I have da ass big tits best blond eva had im guna give u anyting u eva wanted i ken make u feel so special! O yea im 17 by da way! And another ting i waz tld by like 15 different ppl dat i had da perfect body and itz hott!
joe sucks
June 26th, 2010 at 5:50 pm
23joe, you’re an idiot.
Jw
July 7th, 2010 at 7:46 pm
24Ok Joe u sound like a sexist pig no offence I happen to be a girl who could be with or without a guy I am not going to be relying on them. This isn’t the 1950’s. Grow up. A girl isn’t going to want to be with a guy that is shallow. I wonder war your gf would say if she read this. Looks should NOT be the most important.
Taylor
July 10th, 2010 at 3:42 pm
25WHAT YOU ARE CRAZY GUYS SHOULD LIKE GIRLS FOR WHO THEY ARE WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE DOES MATTER TO SOME EXTINCT BUT YOU SHOULD SAY YOUR BEAUTIFUL NO MATTER WHAT GUYS THINK BESIDES YOU SHOULDN’T CHANGE FOR A GUY THEY SHOULD LOVE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE ONE DAY YOU’LL FIND HER OR HIM AND YOU WON’T CARE ABOUT OTHER CHICKS OR WHAT PEOPLE SAY
Lola
July 14th, 2010 at 10:28 pm
26I am a 13 year old girl. I don’t know if people think I’m pretty but my friends, family, and some other people have told me I’m pretty. I really don’t believe them though because of the negative comments vie gotten like my friend insulted me on my butt size and this boy in my grade told me to stop being fat like someone else……do you think I am pretty if I have big brown eyes,reddish brownish medium length wavy hair, a meaty butt but not saggy, and big breasts? I know it’s stupid but I’m getting really mad and confused…
Maggy
July 18th, 2010 at 5:03 pm
27alright
Jeff
July 27th, 2010 at 1:51 am
28Joes right be a slut
Barbie
August 1st, 2010 at 7:19 pm
29I’m a 15 year old girla nd I have a lot of male friends plus I flirt a lot guys teLl me they think I’m cute cuz I’m a bit shy towards realy cute boys so I blush they say I have d cutest smile and they like dat plus I can’t realy look in to a guys eyes that I like with out smileing back. plus they like down 2 earth girls who care about other peeps feelings and listen 2 what they have 2 say. Guys like girls who aren’t afriad 2 stad up for them selves and defend themselfs when they have 2 plus they think a girls cute when they get mad hope this helps
laura
August 25th, 2010 at 5:34 pm
30Heya like it is mostly about people looks. cause if a fella seen someone ugly he wouldnt look or think twice of talking to her or anything but if the see a good looking girl they be like shes hot ill talk to her like same with girls.
I know this sounds corny and everyone says it
DONT JUDGE A BOOK BY IT COVER
Brandon.
August 31st, 2010 at 12:55 pm
31Here is what i find attractive in a girl.

Sure, physical qualities are great!, but personallity is all that really matters!
I want a girl, that would love me, no matter what happens.
A girl that isnt all sexual, but at least would do something but only if she felt comfortable doing that.
I want a girl with a beautiful cute face over a hott or sexy face.
Ill take a girl with small boobs or anything (personally “butts” do not grab my attention and turn me OFF).
I want a girl who isnt judgemental. Who wouldnt make you change for them. I want that one girl, who isnt afraid to call the male in the relationship, handsome or beautiful. Because most girls these days just say Hott. Which is a huge turnoff for me. Actully..I have a beautiful girlfriend. Shes a year older than me. But shorter than me, I love that she doesnt care about age, And accepts me for who i am. But i cant stand when girls talk about themselfs, its annoying sometimes because I rather have a girl talk about “us”. I want a girl who wouldnt wanna makeout every second. But kiss you on the forehead, or neck, every once in awhile :). And whisper in your ear “I love you”. Thats personally what i find attractive in a girl, and everyone. Joe IS entitled to his opinion. We all look at girls differently, so please stop with the “joe your a disgusting pig” kind of things. He has the right to like what he likes in his girls. And so do we. Thanks
jida
August 31st, 2010 at 10:59 pm
32Joe ur a dumb ass
#1cheerleader
September 7th, 2010 at 8:22 pm
33ok i am 14 and i have the bigest crush on a guy who will remain nameless but all my friends say he is a player but he is realy nice to me all of my male firends say that he is nice because he wants to get in my pants. i totally hope that is not true but i don’t know what to think because he has had alot of girlfriends and he is a football player sooo i have one friend who thinks i dont have a chance but he seems to like me i meen i am a cheerleader so mabey that counts i mean he talks to me all the time and he knows that i like him.i just have issues when i get around him i get super nervious.i need make help in this situation please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you can email it to me at adarahuntley@aol.com
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