When you’re good, you’re good; but when you’re bad it’s fantastic. Swap roles and become a vamp. It’ll sort out your love life.

Use Visuals!

Why do you think lingerie is targeted towards men? But it doesn’t mean you have to wear lacy thongs. Be a sexy secretary and wear tight button down shirt and glasses and nothing else. You get the drift? He likes to know he’s worth the effort and dressing up will help you get into the role as well.

Flex the imagination!

Share your fantasies. Then act them out. No, we don’t encourage inviting a friend into the bedroom, but just pretend he’s a stranger you met at a dinner party and slip into the loo for a steamy time.

Love Yourself!

A seasoned seductress know what she likes, and uses practice to get to know herself better. And if the manual approach is not that satisfying, spend some time with yourself and ask your man to then join in. not only will the show prep him up, he’ll know what you like better.

Do it everywhere!

Start with a steamy kiss in the lift or car; grope on the stairs; end up on the table or couch- just stay away from the bedroom.

Be selfish!

Time spent on maintenance is time well spent. Get your hair done. Slap on some sweet smelling cream before bed and let him watch you do it. Do it more than once a month. You’ll glow and feel great about yourself; sometimes it is better than lingerie.

Play with props!

Play with some toys- whether they are small things such a specs or heels, or silk scarves to tie him to the bed. Just keep the game on.

It’s not a Favor

If you treat sex as a favor, you’ll end up feeling used and manipulated. Be generous with what you’re comfortable.